How does it work?
People I work with have often tried to read books and listen to speakers or get advice from friends, but keep finding themselves stuck in their hurtful cycles again. My work focuses on noticing draining cycles couples get stuck in and providing new ways of connecting so that the positive connections that attract two people become alive again. Couples learn about their emotional relationship, expectations, and ways of establishing security between partners. We discover problems between people in relationship patterns rather than focusing on something wrong inside of people.
We will treat your relationship as the client rather than siding with one partner over the other. Together, we’ll find new ways to escape being stuck and discover healthy ways to talk about and heal from hurtful experiences. Therapy can facilitate a helpful, connecting process that couples can then learn to use outside the office.